His fans used the second one to boost Misha's ego and to mock Jared. There was a huge faction row and Jared ended up on the receiving end of some, to him, likely inexplicable (because none of them pay much attention to fandom rows) cyber bullying (hmmm...). Considering that it all happened within a couple of days of the book containing Jared's chapter being released and what that chapter was about* it all made Misha look bad, no matter how much he was 'joking'.
When I asked (politely) on line for people to give me examples of Misha mitigating this commentary, or actually at any point in any convention or otherwise complimenting Jared (it was very obviously only Jared he meant, so that was interesting too) - not J2, Jared - I got one example of how Jared is fond of Misha's kids so clearly Misha has never said anything bad enough to upset Jared. I was called 'hateful' and blocked when I pointed out that that really wasn't an example of anything except that Jared wouldn't be consciously mean to a child no matter what...
I don;t think that Jared has a problem with Misha, I think they are friends. I also think Misha occasionally takes advantage of the fact that Jared really can't speak out in his own defence without getting slated for it.
So again, I am perfectly willing to entertain a compliment that Misha has given to Jared that Jared wasn't present for. I haven't yet been presented with one! I actually would like to believe better of him, but I don't normally watch his panels so I don't have any personal knowledge.
This is a guy working to keep other people employed so they can belittle him and 'fans' like the Misha (oddly) fan below can reduce him to 'compliments' about his hair:
*This is the context of how Jared looks at his job and his life.
And yeah I do see that he doesn't seem to mind that despite how he feels about his job, and despite the actual evidence we have of how hard he works and what he has sacrificed for it, it is rare that any one of his close colleagues, excepting Jensen, says anything positive in public about his work ethic and his commitment (though in conjunction with Jensen, or ONLY about Jensen, they will).